You and I are Polar Opposite is a heartwarming romantic comedy about two completely opposite high school individuals—a quiet boy and a lively “gyaru.” A unique aspect of this story is that, unlike most romantic manga where the focus is on the journey leading to the characters starting a relationship, this one flips the script. The two protagonists begin dating early on, and the story centers around their emotional growth—not just as a couple navigating their relationship, but also as individuals maturing and evolving in their own ways.
Suzuki-san, the heroine of this manga, struggles with worrying about how others perceive her, despite her cheerful demeanor. She is drawn to Tani-kun, who, unlike her, stays true to his own beliefs without trying to conform to others. At first, the two feel somewhat mismatched, but with each passing chapter, they grow into a perfect couple, which is heartwarming to see.
You and I are Polar Opposite, Episode 1, Translation: – I get so hung up on what everyone else thinks… that the only way I can communicate with you is in a way that ensures no one figures out I like you.
The main characters begin their relationship early on, but you also get to follow other characters whose journeys gradually lead them to romance, adding another layer of enjoyment to the story. The main characters and supporting cast are all well-developed. Each person has their own unique insecurities, and they are all working to overcome them. The classmates, friends, and acquaintances in the story are kind and considerate, with no bullies or mean-spirited students. However, each character faces their own personal struggles, which feel very genuine. Those who initially blame others for their problems come to realize that they need to change their way of thinking. Through this careful self-reflection, they learn and grow as individuals.
Personally, I really like Nishi-san. She is extremely shy and struggles to communicate with people she isn’t familiar with, even if they are her classmates. At first, she is awkward even with simple exchanges of messages. But with the encouragement of those around her, she gradually opens up and starts expressing her feelings more confidently.
However, based on other readers’ reviews, the most popular characters seem to be Taira and Azuma, and I totally understand why. For example, even though my high school days are long behind me, I can still relate to Taira’s difficulty in expressing his feelings. There are many aspects of his character that resonate with me. Fans often discuss Taira, Azuma, or both of them, and I get the impression that they might be the real stars of the story. In fact, many readers are hoping for a spin-off that focuses solely on Taira and Azuma.
The artwork of this manga is unique and distinctive, and I find it quite cute. I recommend this manga to those who want to read something with a gentle, steady pace—without too much emotional ups and downs. It’s perfect for those who are tired of the stresses of real life and just want to relax and unwind.
